Thursday, September 25, 2008

FrieNdsSss

we did a question on friendship yesterday..
"Pada pendapat anda, mengapakah kita perlu berhati-hati ketika memilih rakan?"

one of the answers was untuk memastikan hubungan sentiasa erat dan menjadi rujukan ketika menghadapi masalah.

talking about friends, friendships, friends and friendship, A FRiEnDsHip needs time to develop but we can destroy a FRiEnDsHip in a minute. how true! it's true that friends play a vital role in our lives. especially after a few deaths that had happened recently, it made me realized that i need to treasure them even more.

Friends. i need them in times when i'm down- my source of comfort and encourgement. but what about when everything is "okok"? do i still remember them? do i still take the initiative to talk to them? am i a person who only look out for them when i need them and forsake them when everything in my life is going smoothly? i dun wanna be this kind of friend and neither do i want them to think that i'm that kind of friend.

lately, i've been thinking about my friendship with my friends. some are not as close anymore like last time, some still maintain, some even closer, some are like a roller coaster, sometimes we get along well but after a while we become "normal" friends. most of my friends come and go, which one will really last? does true friendship last? have i been a good friend to others? where is God in my friendship with others?

when there's expectations, disappointments will come along automatically. i've learnt not to expect too much from them. it's hard but it's easier if i place my trust in Him.

haih..

thoughts.

feelings.

thoughts.

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