Wednesday, November 17, 2010

People don't understand people

I don't understand people..

lately, i've come across a few people. not really come across. hmm.. i come across people and meet people everyday. okay, basically just a few people that "caught my attention" and cause me to think and reflect...

first, is people whom i come across which are slightly not so helpful.. i'm not here to judge them la... ok? just here to share my opinions.. Lately, i've been struggling a bit with my photog assignment. photog was not as easy as i thought it was.. maybe because last time(before this module) i took photog as my hobby instead of looking at it as a homework!.. oh well, it's gonna end anyway.. haha... anyway, through this journey of "producing" photos i just came across people who were slightly not that helpful... i dont knw... mayb they have their own 苦中 and reason for not helping "me" bah.. but sometimes i find it unreasonable when my only request is to take only part of their legs or hands.. is it so hard? is it really so "embarrassing" to have your pics in my assignment? not even your face leh.. just your hands or legs..:)

second, i came across people who were totally opposite as the above.. hehe.. sometimes i just feel so grateful to have friends like them..(not that i'm not grateful for unhelpful friends.. i still believe that God place them in our lives for a reason to teach us)(:.. friends that are willing to sacrifice their time, money and energy despite whether they are free or busy.. sometimes, just feel so "paiseh" to ask them for more help.. knowing that they have helped "me" so much...

well, all i can say is.. it's not easy to understand why people react in different ways sometimes.. but, what i've learned through all this is to always look out for the interest of others- to regard others more important than myself. it's something easier said than done..

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