It is totally hard to forgive someone...who has done to you so much wrong....someone whom you know their motives behind every question they ask and every action they do...
sometimes,
just don't feel like answering them...
because you know that your answers will only benefit them and cause you more frustrations.
it is totally hard to forgive someone...
whom is still able to laugh at you when you're the victim of their actions...
it is even harder to forgive someone..
when all others gossip about them.. but you choose not to take it their gossips.. sometimes don't even choose to listen what they gossip.. but yet those gossips keep floating in your mind causing hurt and unforgiveness to grow deeper.
Forgiving others is not easy... it is a humble act of worship... denying our prideful self and allowing God to restore relationships.
One once said, forgiveness is a commitment... and One even greater said,
"Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to do what is honorable in the sight of all. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.” To the contrary, “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Romans 12:17-21
He even said,
"Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?
Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times."
Matthew 18:21-22
