Relationship are worth restoring...
BUT...
What if there are doubts?
will it be cleared??
What if there are misunderstanding?
will it be solved??
What if there is hatred?
will it be replaced with love again??
What if your friend treats somebody else better that she treats you?
will jealousy overtack??
What if there are unforgiveness?
will it be forgiven and forgotten??
What if there is mistrust?
will the trust be gained back again??
What if we expect too much from them yet gain back nothing?
will we be disappointed??
What if something unfair happens?
will it be fair again??
In spite of all this,
will we give up that friendship?..
=)
What if there are doubts?
will it be cleared??
What if there are misunderstanding?
will it be solved??
What if there is hatred?
will it be replaced with love again??
What if your friend treats somebody else better that she treats you?
will jealousy overtack??
What if there are unforgiveness?
will it be forgiven and forgotten??
What if there is mistrust?
will the trust be gained back again??
What if we expect too much from them yet gain back nothing?
will we be disappointed??
What if something unfair happens?
will it be fair again??
In spite of all this,
will we give up that friendship?..
=)
2 comments:
hem.. Yeap.!! freoindship is complicated.. well, is better to solve it now b4 it become terrible.. well, sometime.. we dun really need to be the winner , or hav rights.. eventhough the one may be wrong.. is still ur frined.!! n if u really love her, n care, tell her properly.. n solve it.. I believe u can!!
Hmmm... Recently I have been giving thought to the whole friendship thing. I also recently had a chat with someone who said something very wise.
A friendship will never be perfect, simply because the two friends are not perfect. Arguments, misunderstandings, and so on are inevitable. A good friendship is not free from fights, but it is one that picks up after an incident.
For friends to truly be friends, they must be willing to accept each other as who they are. They must be willing to be happy for each in victory, and sad for each other in trouble. They should be able to count on each other.
I don't think there is any room in a friendship for jealousy. After all, friendship is built with love, and love does not envy.
How do we rid ourselves of jealousy, suspicion, and mistrust of our friends? I believe that we must first know who WE ourselves are. We are children of God, loved by God Himself! Once we are secure in our identity, we'll find that our friends seem to be better people.
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